The Decluttering Matrix: The Only Decluttering System You’ll Ever Need
Time passes quickly when your everyday life is filled with things to do and people to take care of, it’s no wonder decluttering is never top priority. Let’s deep dive why decluttering regularly should be a priority and how to make the entire process less daunting.
Why Decluttering is a Must
A cluttered space pulls your mind in many different directions, even if you’re not intentionally seeking it out. Your brain will naturally observe and register items in a room which takes up valuable resources that could be offered to other things like finishing an important task.
All those papers that are sitting on your desk? Your brain uses energy to observe and process what it’s looking at, which is not a significant issue on its own. Where problems arise is when there’s stacks and stacks of papers, books, and other random items laid around and out of place. The more the brain has to process, the more energy it uses, which can build up to a significant use of energy that’d otherwise be best used on more productive tasks.
Think back to a time you walked into a messy room. You likely felt overwhelmed, because your brain didn’t know where to direct your eyes on where to look.
Now, think about a time you walked into the same room after it was cleaned and organized. It probably felt more peaceful and less noisy than before. This is a prime example of how clutter buildup can drastically affect your brain.
When the brain is forced to endure so much stimulus, it sends stress signals to the body which increases cortisol, otherwise known as the “stress hormone.” This means that clutter quite literally creates physical stress on your body.
This explains why your living space feels so much better after a deep cleaning and decluttering session. The more clutter there is, the more your brain has to give, which spreads to larger problems like anxiety, depression, or burn out to become more prominent.
In short, clutter stresses us out, but decluttering can help prevent this!
How To Use The Decluttering Matrix
Here’s the catch about clutter: It never gets easier.
Once it begins to build, it only grows until you address it.
A systematic approach to decluttering will help with task avoidance and finally create clean-thinking, clutter-free living or working space. The system we most recommend is called the, “Keep. Toss. Donate. Store.” approach which seems nonsensical at first, but many people rely on it to get major decluttering done in a timely manner.
The reason this system works well is because it simplifies your thinking and removes emotion from your decision-making. Though these items are considered clutter, it doesn’t take away their importance to us. At some point these items you’ve set aside hold a certain value or meaning to you which can make it difficult to decide what to do with them.
How The System Works
This method calls for you to decide if something holds enough meaning for you to continue to hang onto it or get rid of it. Remove those emotional barriers and keep everything strictly business!
The system has four layers of consideration that can help with your decision-making.
KEEP
Such items can include:
- Important documents (legal contracts, health records, etc.)
- Family photos or heirlooms
- Highly valuable memorabilia
- Sporting, fitness, or other equipment that will be used at a later date
- Other highly significant items
- Is this item worth the little storage space I have?
- Will I, or someone around me, use this item in the near-future?
- Will I genuinely miss this item if I get rid of it?
- When was the last time I needed this item?
TOSS
However, more often than not, the reason items get set aside is because we’re done using them.
Your responsibility for an item isn’t over when you’re done using it, it’s over when you dispose of it. However, many items have disposal guidelines that must be followed, and often for good reason. Simply throwing something in the garbage, because you don’t need it anymore doesn’t mean that’s it.
Take a few moments to read the disposal directions on the item or even look it up online for best practices. There are some items that are considered hazardous and require a specific way of disposing that can’t be accomplished through your general trash. Additionally, some other items may be accepted by companies that can repurpose them or, at minimum, will properly recycle the old items for you.
Some examples include:
- Dropping off dead batteries, old paint, lightbulbs and other common household wastes that pose significant risks at a hazardous waste facility in your area.
- Taking used containers of motor oil to places like automotive parts stores that can properly dispose of it.
- Certain Items and understanding their recycling symbols.
DONATE
However, it can be a test of your ethics, because you must ensure you’re not selling an item that’s in poor condition just to make money. In the end, don’t throw something away if you can make some extra money on the side provided it’s in the right condition.
Maybe decluttering isn’t so bad after all!
STORE
If you come across an item that you must keep, but can’t justify the space then a storage unit is the perfect solution. Another avenue to consider can be getting a storage unit to place other items in that aren’t part of your decluttering, so you have more room in your home or workspace to store those items that you want to keep.
For instance, if you’re sorting through a pile of clutter and come across some precious family pictures that you need to keep, but the picture books they’re stored in take up so much room! Even though storage units are perfect for items like photos or business records, you may want to keep these particular albums close by. You can get a storage unit and make room by moving other items like seasonal decor, outdoor holiday decorating items, or even sporting equipment to a self-storage unit.
For more sensitive items, a climate-controlled, or heated self-storage unit, are perfect for creating ideal storing conditions, which are often better than even your common home storage spaces like attics, basements, garages, and crawlspaces.
How To Use The Decluttering Matrix
Think of the matrix like an “if-then statement,” a common condition software engineers code to execute certain tasks in a certain order. This creates a streamlined system that allows decision making to easily flow from beginning to end. Let’s use an example to illustrate how you can approach the Decluttering Matrix. The flow, or condition, should go as follows:
✅ If yes, ask, “do I have the space or need to keep the item at home?”
✅ If yes, then place in the, “keep,” pile.
⛔ If no, then place the item in the, “store,” pile.
🤔 If you don’t want to keep the item, then ask yourself, “can I donate (or sell) this item for someone else to use?”
✅ If yes, then place the item in the, “donate,” pile.
🗑️ If you say no to all of these categories, then place the item in the, “toss,” pile.
This process can seem excessive, and maybe even like it’ll take more time, but the reality is the framework itself will help you. When dealing with piles of random clutter, you must strike the balance between being efficient and getting through the clutter and not overwhelming yourself causing paralysis by analysis. Going into a pile of clutter with a gameplan makes it far less daunting and much easier to approach, all of which is the point of the Decluttering Matrix.
Remember, clutter doesn’t get better on its own!








